“Marriage Is Becoming Extinct Like Dinosaurs” by @Bdell1014

Posted: November 18, 2013 in Uncategorized

In this installment, I’m going to talk about the sanctity of marriage and why it’s basically shitball in this day and age. Nowadays people only entertain the thought of marriage because they know their mate knows that’s what they want to hear. If marriage means so much, then why are you allowed to do it more than once? If marriage means so much, then why do people get drunk & marry a stranger in Las Vegas? Marriage has become the caveat of a practical joke and financial burden in this country. I thought the premise of marriage was unconditional love? Marrying any nigga for financial stability and his money is nothing but a form of prostitution. You sweetheart are the truest form of a whore.

“Till death do us part or you lose your job & I can’t hold you down.” – Marriage in America From A Hoes Point Of View

Being married won’t make you whole, but being whole will make you see the value in marriage and eventually help you become marriage-worthy (if you’re wanting to be married). Marriage in my opinion will no longer be an option in the next 15 years because a lot of us are going die single with all these unrealistic expectations and fairytale preferences and I’ve accepted that. Niggas preferences are way too high & most bitches are hoes. Nobody compromising. Another thing, if television perpetuates this image of marriage as being a joke then what makes you think the women who watch those “Basketball Wives” reality shows on VH1 aren’t going to insinuate that lifestyle. The show is called “Basketball Wives” and none of them bitches our women idolize are not married. Wonderful logic you have there. This whole ideology of marriage is a mindset and behavior it’s not what society paints it to be.

Me being a young black man without any kids has lessen the likelihood of me settling down and getting married. Too many women have kid(s) and I’m not marrying a woman who is a proud member of “Baby Mamaship.” Marrying a woman with kids is like continuing on another niggas saved game on PlayStation 4, so just image how many young guys think and have the same preferences as I do and don’t want to be complacent with mediocrity. Many of us was taught to put a ring on her finger before you put a baby inside her. Love, marriage, THEN come with the baby in the baby carriage but a small percentage took heed to that advice… Too many baby mama’s, not enough wives, too many baby daddy’s, not enough husbands. That’s why I think marriage is pretty much obsolete for me.

In conclusion, I hope something I’ve said in this blog has convinced you to see the terrible value in marriage, especially as it relates to our people. The one piece of marriage advice that I will explicitly give to you is that holding on too tight guarantees that it will slip away. In this era love does not sustain a marriage cause the vast majority of married couples can’t say “Happy Anniversary”… It’s extinct like Dinosaurs.

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  1. FullyAwake says:

    You are a wise man. Do not get married or have kids.

    Unconditional love is a myth. As a man, you’re only loved for what you can provide. Beyond that, you’re worthless to women. You are now and will always be a dildo with a wallet. You’re a sperm bank that dispenses, seed, child support and alimony.

    Yes. It’s nothing more than prostitution. You are going ‘red pill’.

    Yes. They are all whores. Don’t stick your torpedo in that torpedo tube.

    The only thing that will make you whole is your definition of yourself. If you let a woman define you, you’ll suffer horribly. You do not need to be married to be whole. You just need to be whole. You’ll figure that part out.

    The marriage rates are tanking across all races. Since 1970, marriage rates have declined 60% on average. 40% of white births are out of wedlock. 70% of black births are out of wedlock. Men pay the vast majority of child support and alimony. Men pay the vast majority of taxes. Women file the vast majority of divorces.

    Men have been marginalized for decades. In the past 10 years, they’ve been brutally marginalized.

    Do not get married or have kids. You’ll pay with your sanity if you do.

    I’m a white guy and will never get married or have kids.

  2. Never take marriage advice from single people is the best advice, therefore this blog post is void.

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